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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..

3 Signs It's Time to Walk Away
I think we've all been there. In some sort of quasi-relationship, but plagued with the thoughts that maybe this isn't the right person for you, and you're thinking about ending the relationship.
By Heart Centered Universe8 years ago in Humans
How to Prepare for Love
If you're struggling to find a suitable partner, or if you keep attracting the same types of people that just aren't right for you, then it's time to take a big step back and go within. Oftentimes our subconscious mind has been programed (through our upbringing and experiences), and this "blueprint" is what is pushing love away from you. These blocks need to be removed before you can find true love. You owe it to yourself and to your future love to do the internal work that is necessary in order to find real, lasting love.
By Heart Centered Universe8 years ago in Humans
Best Way to Keep Long Distance Relationships Alive
From experience, as a young woman dating someone whose nights were my partner's daytimes, I've been through it all. On top of it, I've learned the best lessons from it that I couldn't have ever imagined. I learned to establish trust, patience, and to show more sincerity to make up for the lack of physical touch and the caressing that most men desire from their woman.
By M S8 years ago in Humans
Love Language and the Importance of Understanding Your Partner
I’ve often been described as hot-tempered. I’m high in emotion. Sometimes I borderline on over-sensitivity. Coming to terms with my childhood and who I’ve grown to be has proven to be more of a challenge than I would have hoped. As I’ve become the 27 year old gay that I am, I’ve realized that I center in actions more than words as the old adage says. I very seldom would say, “I love you,” because I believed my actions show the love I have. I’m not big on words pertaining to love. I can go without hearing love words and still believe that I am completely loved, because it’s the willingness to relinquish your time and energy to me that shows me. It sounds bitter, maybe misguided and jaded, but it’s legitimately how my mind works.
By Triston Dyer8 years ago in Humans
How to Be Romantic With an Introvert
I am an extremely introverted and just flat out awkward person. And my poor husband learned early on that I am not a romantic person… at least not outwardly so. I am adamant that I do not like to be touched (but I do, just only in certain ways and at certain times and by very certain people), I claim that I don’t like cliché romantic gestures, and I’ve just always been difficult at receiving love.
By Jessica Rowe8 years ago in Humans
The Ultimate Guide to Stop Attracting Narcissists
Do you sometimes wonder if you could actually save yourself from constant heartache and pain? Have you ever felt like you thought you were in an exclusive relationship but you just wasn't sure due to their nonchalant attitude?
By Silena Le Beau8 years ago in Humans
Why Intuition Is Your Greatest Asset When You're Single
Your Life Partner Is the Most Important... The person you choose as your life partner is the most important decision you will ever make. It will account for 90 percent of your happiness or misery. Choose one person, and your life could be filled with love, trust, respect, and spiritual growth. Choose a different person, and your life could be filled with inflated egos, mistrust, disrespect, and ultimately, heartbreak.
By Heart Centered Universe8 years ago in Humans
The Past Forms You
I have gotten far in my short 25 years of life. I have gone through so many changes that I never thought I would experience. Growing up, I had the "white picket fence." I got everything I have ever needed or wanted. I was the only child in my family, so I guess you could say I was spoiled. I am thankful for everything I have been faced with. Some people deserve a shout out because they helped form me into the person I am today.
By Ashley Nicole8 years ago in Humans
Six Signs of a Controlling Partner
Dating someone who's controlling isn't cute or fun. It's often annoying, frustrating, can lead to fights and a lot of tension, and sometimes even put your life in danger. Domestic abuse is all too real, and being fooled/manipulated into an abusive relationship can happen to not only women, but men as well.
By Alicia Cameron8 years ago in Humans
3 Simple Steps to Better Interactions
Working in communications has taught me a lot about how people interact in just about every place and every situation in the world. It's fascinating to see how someone from one region of the world or a particular socioeconomic status engages with someone from a completely different one. Everything from eye contact to the amount of words exchanged can totally differ. Some might be more soft spoken, while others very engaged and dominant in the exchange. After countless interactions and connections I made with people regardless of age, title, level of education and cultural background, I've been able to identify 3 basic things that play a huge role in virtually every interaction you'll make.
By The Rogue Scribe8 years ago in Humans
Picking a Goodbye
The loss of a loved one and the subsequent funeral planning is one of the most heart wrenching time of one’s life. You are reeling from the pain, shock, and heartbreaking reality of their loss, and you are now in charge of creating the perfect tribute within a budget. When in a funeral director’s office, being emotionally manipulated and subjected to sales tactics you will be hit with ‘the this one is nice, but doesn’t your loved one deserve to be shrouded in luxury for their final resting place…” This is the time when someone should be sitting next to you reminding you this vessel is empty, and your late loved one would probably haunt you if you put yourself in financial straits to wrap them in gold woven robes, and went with the top of the line casket with solid gold accents.
By Virtuosity's NewVMusic 8 years ago in Humans
Top 10 Reasons Why You Should Be Friends Before Getting into a Relationship
When you think about it, most people don’t always become good friends before taking things to the next level. Sometimes the friendship step comes right after the relationship failed. Then the two individuals decide that it would be best for them to remain friends instead of parting ways and never interact with each other again. One of the most common reasons why people go right into a new relationship after leaving the old one is to ease the pain of losing the love and comfort that they were once getting from their old partner. They do not take the time to heal themselves so therefore they jump right into a new relationship with anyone who either looks good or says the right things to them. Why do we allow our need for lust and companionship to lead us to a karmic relationship? Moreover, what are the benefits of establishing a real friendship before becoming more than just a friend? So I’m going to go over my top 10 reasons why two people should be friends before making it official.
By Spencer Jean-Mary8 years ago in Humans