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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..
Love After Assault
Love After Assault I am a victim of assault. Now there’s a phrase I thought I’d never use. But there you go. I am a victim of assault. I didn’t ask for it; no one ever does really, do they? It wasn’t a stranger either. It was my long-term boyfriend. The love of my love. The “one.” Except that was a lie, because no one who hurts someone the way he did could ever truly love you.
By Susan Joyce7 years ago in Humans
Trust
It is really hard to trust people especially when you have been hurt over and over again. Being able to trust someone is the ability to rely on them and become confident in them. Being confident that they will do what they say they will do, being confident that they will be there for you and they won’t abuse or take advantage of you. However, when you have opened up to people in your life whether it be through friendship, family or relationships; if people keep on letting you down then you will lose all confidence in people in general.
By Shauna Campbell7 years ago in Humans
Teaching People How to Treat You
This topic seems to come up every now and again in discussions I have with people, mainly friends and sometimes family members as well. It is so easy sometimes to notice toxic behaviors in other people, especially when it conflicts with our own wants and needs. However, there is a difference in displaying toxic traits, and taking control of your life, even if it means having to tell someone something they don't want to hear. One of the most important lessons my mom ever taught me was that, we have no control over how someone will react when we tell them something. Now, that doesn't mean we need to be rude about it, but rather we need to be direct in what we need or want to succeed. Don't settle for something just to make others happy. In this article, I'm going to attempt to shine some light on this.
By Courtney Ranger-Efford7 years ago in Humans
When All Else Fails
Every single argument my husband and I have ever gotten into, I only remember one thing about; loving him solved the issue. You know those arguments where you just stop talking and don't speak to each other for long periods of time? Every little thing they do either ticks you off or just makes you more upset. You get the "I'm right" mentality and are just waiting for an apology. Well guess what, we will rarely get one. It's not necessarily a bad thing either. Arguments don't make you right, they make you upset and communicate poorly.
By Ashly Arbes7 years ago in Humans
Wait for the Man Who Will Truly Love You
She loves him whole heartedly. She would give anything to make their relationship last but yet he still doesn't see that. Whenever he falls, she is always there to catch him and pick him up. Whatever he needs she is always there to provide. She would turn everything upset down to make him happy and make his world whole again.
By Shauna Campbell7 years ago in Humans
Saving Your Long Distance Relationship
On June 9, 2018, I recently started my first relationship in my life. It was one of those happiest moments of my life that I will never forget and that I will always cherish within my heart, even though it was a long distance relationship. Basically, I met my partner online, and we were both just thinking about becoming friends, nothing else. However, there was this time when I realized how lovely, caring, and happy she was when I was chatting with her, and I couldn't just stay in silence until I decided to declare my love to her. Because of my declaration of my love to her, we began our relationship, even though we were like 7500 miles away from each other (it was from the USA to the Philippines if you're curious about this distance).
By Victor Barajas7 years ago in Humans
How to Save Your Relationship During the Quarrel
Any relationships, in general, is a complex system of connections between two people. It is impossible to live happily together without working on relationships and conflicts resolutions is one of the aspects that should be taken into account. People are very different and these differences lead to conflicts and quarrels between those who are in love but even love can't save relationships if both partners give up trying to solve their problem. That's why in order be able to save relationships of marriage one should know how to tackle the conflicts without horrible consequences for both parties. This article contains the list of the most simple but effective nevertheless tips to save relationships from the breakdown.
By Melisa Marzett7 years ago in Humans
10 Things You Can Do to Prepare for a Long-Distance Relationship
As much as we wish we could try, love is something we simply cannot control. By that we mean, we usually can’t control who we fall in love with or even when. That’s probably why there are reportedly 14-15 million individuals who are currently in what they would consider being a long-distance relationship.
By Lizzie Boudoir7 years ago in Humans
Don’t Be a Jerkface
We all know that person. They are cringeworthy, overly opinionated, crude, rude, arrogant, anything but thoughtful and incredibly difficult to get along with. So what happens when that person is us? I know, I know. The thought of that is almost preposterous. The truth however, is that from time to time, we are all simply a jerkface.
By Angel Regel7 years ago in Humans
