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Top Five Wrong Reasons Why People Get Married
There is nothing more beautiful than witnessing a couple unite themselves in holy matrimony, and get ready to spend the rest of their lives with each other. The idea of having someone get down on one knee and propose is usually a reoccurring thought that goes through a lot of womens' minds once they get into a serious and committed relationships. While marriage has always been a symbol of the union of two lovers, most of the time, the intention behind the act of getting married isn’t always genuine. Instead of doing it for love, and the need, and want, to share a life with someone, some individuals get married for other reasons. Which in turn, tend to crush the marriage over time, resulting in divorce, the loss of capital and financial assets, as well as going through painful times, and learning karmic lessons. In this article, I’m going to go through the top five wrong reasons people get married, and why they should never be in the picture when you are thinking about making that lifelong decision.
By Spencer Jean-Mary7 years ago in Humans
Courage
So today was a dreary day where I live. Lots of thunderstorms and rain, which meant staying close to home and naps, lots of naps. So I used the day to catch up on much needed rest, hanging out with my son, and watching a few videos of some of my favorite speakers. Today was Trent Shelton, he was promoting his new book in a live video and taking questions from the Rehab Family. Of course, lots of people made encouraging comments, showed gratitude for the difference he's made in their lives through his words, etc. etc. etc.
By Cynthia Perez7 years ago in Humans
How to Keep Connected
One of the biggest problems that relationships face is lack of communication. Now this communication is not just about the relationship and sex, but things that they find entertaining and fun. Let's say you are not a football fan, and hate to hear about how his football game has gone.
By Author Billiejo Priestley7 years ago in Humans
Red Flags of an Abusive Relationship, and How to Get Out Early
There are many type of abuse, these are my experiences with abuse told me and what I’ve witnessed. I hope that this helps you to stay educated to know where it leads, before it actually gets too late.While many of these are "obvious" you will be surprised at how quickly you are sucked into it, if you aren't careful.
By Caroline Pereira7 years ago in Humans
Beat Around the Bush: A Millennial Concept
Remember the days where absolutely nothing mattered? I’m talking about being six years old and not giving a damn. Life was purely lollipops and rainbows. Well, for the most part that is. The days where you would chase a boy around the playground, and that would be your way of showing your utmost admiration for him. It was always mutually understood. At age nine, I began writing emails. Not just any emails though, long novels about how deeply “in love” I was for whatever boy gave me remotely any attention. Pretty ballsy I’d say. 13 was a time to be alive. I was asked out by a kid in the orchestra room because I told his best friend that I “really liked him.” A direct source. Basically, what I’m trying to get at is this: What the hell happened to ruthlessness of our youth?! Why am I terrified of rejection? Why do I get choked up over the thought of verbally expressing my feelings for someone? So many questions, 21 years, and I still don’t have this shit figured out.
By Miyah Henderson7 years ago in Humans
A Glass of Self-Love
As a woman in her 20s, I never thought divorce would be on the table. Finding myself wondering how does one bounce back after devoting the last few years to building a life with another person. There is no doubt that regardless of the outcome, I am hopeful. And as I look back in hindsight and toward the future, here is what I have learned so far.
By Gabrielle Maryse7 years ago in Humans
To the Toxic Person in My Life
Today I pray for you. I pray that you find peace in the world, peace within yourself. I pray you can learn to love yourself enough to not tear others down. I hope one day you can be so genuinely confident in yourself and your thoughts that you don’t feel the need to push them on others. One of the greatest feelings is being able to live drama free, even if that means separating yourself from negative people in your life. I pray that you will have the strength to forgive all that have hurt you so you will no longer be angry all the time.
By Nakoma Mull7 years ago in Humans
We Teach People How to Treat Us from the Treatment We Accept
People often say and do things that we may not like or that might hurt us. It’s an inevitable part of life and is bound to happen in all types of relationships. However, not expressing our feelings and thoughts about such things to the person tells them that it is okay to repeat it again in the future. We teach people how to treat us from the treatment we accept.
By Simran Lavanya Saraf7 years ago in Humans
How to Treat Your Soulmate with Love and Affection She Deserves
Your soulmate is, without a doubt, the most important person in your life. She is the one who loves you unconditionally and understands you completely. The one who sees the best in you and always pushes you to become your better self. Though you may be grateful for all the things she provides for you, sometimes it’s hard to express that. This should just encourage you to find ways to show her how much you actually care.
By Mia Johnson7 years ago in Humans
Cheating Men
86 percent of men have been caught cheating according to statistics of 2018. 20 percent of those admitted to it. What about the other men who did not admit it, those who hide their sins so well there is not any evidence, or those who trick their wives or girlfriends into believing they are imagining it or going crazy?
By Sarah James7 years ago in Humans
How to Be in a Relationship with a Chronically Ill Person
Are you ready for this one! It's tough! Being in a relationship with a person that has a chronic illness can put a burden on a relationship, especially if you know the person can end up dying from the disease. I have listed 10 things you can do to help you be in a relationship with a chronically ill person.
By Candy Williams7 years ago in Humans
