How much love is ruined by "making"

A girl on Douban said that she broke up with her boyfriend after working overtime all night, and posted a chat record between herself and her boyfriend. To the effect that girls are tired from overtime and complain to their boyfriends. After the boyfriend comforted him, he went to sleep. At 5 a.m., the girl sent a message to her boyfriend, but the other party did not reply. At 8 in the morning, the girl proposed to break up.

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Girl: You didn't accompany me when I stayed up late and worked overtime. You didn't help me when I encountered difficulties. You didn't even send me breakfast. If you didn't understand me, break up!

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Boy: You worked hard, I comforted you and told you not to be so tired; when you encounter something, I will help you find a way, why am I still wrong?

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A lot of netizens said: It's too much, let go of your boyfriend!

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There are also many girls who said: You did the right thing! My girlfriend is working overtime, what's wrong with you? What's up with you ordering breakfast? If you do all these things, you won't break up. After all, it's still boys who don't love enough.

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It seems that there are quite a lot of "girls" in the relationship!

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There are times when a woman wants to do something

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◆I didn't receive the expected birthday present, so I had to reason with him clearly, or break up;

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◆When he got sick, he didn't come back in time to accompany you to the hospital after working overtime. After he got well, he made a big fight with him;

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◆Occasionally, he came back late from overtime, and immediately turned into a detective. Family and friends, neighbors, and leading colleagues all tracked down...

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"Zuo" is too common in intimate relationships. "Xiao Zuo" does not speak for three or five days, which seriously affects the quality of interaction; "Da Zuo" moves fatally, and finally "Zuo" the relationship to a dead end.

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She is obviously a good girl with general knowledge, but why does she feel like a "drug addiction" in front of her lover, and she always wants to "do" it? In fact, behind all the "actions" are expressions of lack of self-confidence in love.

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In an intimate relationship, an inadvertent remark or an unintentional action may activate the sensitive button of "being a girl" - I am always unloved, I am not cute, and you do not love me! Because I feel that you don't love me anymore, so I want to "do" it, just to see if you love me or not.

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However, you have overlooked: love, marriage, and both sexes are essentially the intimate relationship between people, and the long-term relationship of any intimate relationship cannot be solved by "working"! Even if you have any doubts or concerns, you can tell them clearly and negotiate together. You must know that men and women think differently, and their solutions to problems are also different. Therefore, only by being honest with each other can we last for a long time.

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Love depends on the mutual attraction of two people rather than on various means and tests; the most important thing for two people to get along with is mutual appreciation and trust. Only when two hearts are happy can the two be in love for a long time. Two people love each other by mutual appreciation and admiration, by mutual understanding and care, and true love from the heart, in exchange for true love. However, as a "female", apart from "acting", what is the attraction for the other party to understand him and his unspoken thoughts?