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How To Deal With Relationship Stress While In Quarantine
So — you’re in quarantine. The first thing on your mind probably isn’t your relationship. It’s more likely the pressing issue of your physical health and that of your loved ones.
By Leigh Norén6 years ago in Humans
Stop Being A People-Pleaser And Start Standing Up For Yourself
There is a fine line between doing good and being a people-pleaser. Doing good, being kind, and helping others are human nature, and these signify humanity. Behavior is an indicator and not a driver behind our actions. There is nothing wrong with being considerate, but sacrificing us for the sake of pleasing others leads us to a dicey road. It makes authentic caring, communication, and closeness to a fake one.
By Anitha Sankaran6 years ago in Humans
6 Questions to Answer Before You Commit
We all know love is blind. But we can most definitely train ourselves to be better at seeing. These are my 6 tips to gain better sight through your rose-coloured glasses, before someone else crushes them.
By Zoe Mercury6 years ago in Humans
How You Will You Make Your Partner Admit For Cheating.
People try to find loopholes in their friendship, but sometimes there are real doubts. If you have been in a close relationship or in a married setting, it can be difficult to deal with a cheating partner.
By Lena Jhonson6 years ago in Humans
How to not cheat
I was driving in my area and I happened to be on a road that was lined end to end with beautifully designed houses. As I continued to drive down the road, I noticed that my admiration for these houses had momentarily taken my attention and I was no longer focusing on the road ahead as I made my way home. I started to fantasise about what life would be like if I had a house like those I had seen. How easily was I distracted from the home I already own! So, as I eventually pried my eyes away from these houses, I fixed my eyes back on the road ahead it dawned on me that this experience drew some significant parallels when compared to many of our relationships.
By EuGene Jordan6 years ago in Humans
How To Successfully Argue With Your Partner
Couples have heated moments. That's completely natural, however we can often find ourselves making long term decision based on our short term feelings. Some are of the mindset that in order to have a perfect relationship it should be completely argument free. I can assure you that those people are wrong on two accounts:
By EuGene Jordan6 years ago in Humans
How To Support Others During Hard Times
My client is late. As I look around the room ensuring everything is spotless and welcoming enough for when she arrives, I realize she is now 5 minutes late.
By Antonia Lyons6 years ago in Humans
Listen to Understand, not to Reply
I always hear and read about how “repressing” our emotions is very unhealthy. Emotions like anger, fear, sadness and shame could hurt or offend others, and we don’t want to do that. We don’t want to be judged for these negative (but normal) feelings.
By Diana Murray 6 years ago in Humans
How to Deal with Difficult People
We have all met at least one person in our lives who is difficult to talk to, work with or even have an acquaintance with. Most often, these are the people who are not happy with their own lives and they take their frustrations out on every other person by being rude for no reason, having a harsh voice or putting others down but how do we deal with such people if there is no way we can avoid them?
By Adeen Rao6 years ago in Humans
Kissing Guys or Gals at Clubs 101
Do you love the thrill of a new person? Like a child on Christmas Day with a shiny new toy? Well you're not the only one out there.
By Rose6 years ago in Humans
How to Find Your State of True Relaxation
How often do you really relax? We all have different levels of relaxation. We relax when we're not at work or in class, we relax when we're out with friends.
By Leigh Victoria Phan, MS, MFA6 years ago in Humans
The Fumbles on Bumble
If you know me, you know I love online dating. I think it’s amazing. You can be as shallow or superficial as you want, but so is everyone else! I think I’ve probably been on every dating site possible, but I usually stick to Raya, Bumble, and on occasion, Tinder. And every time I start swiping, I realize that men don’t really have great profiles.
By Allison Eckhart6 years ago in Humans