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AI the New Wave of Networking
Networking has always been about building relationships—but the way we network has changed dramatically. Gone are the days when success depended solely on attending events, handing out business cards, and hoping someone remembers your name. Today, digital platforms, global communities, and constant online interaction have transformed how connections are made.
By Anthony Bahamondeabout a month ago in Humans
How to Date a Guy Online Without Getting Ghosted
Online dating has transformed the way Generation Z connects, flirts, and forms relationships. Apps make it easy to meet people, but staying connected is the real issue. Ghosting is prevalent, aggravating, and frequently perplexing. We're left wondering what went wrong and if we said the wrong thing. The reality is simple. Dating a guy online without being ghosted requires clarity, timing, and emotional awareness.
By Relationship Guideabout a month ago in Humans
How to Date a Guy Without Sleeping With Him and Feel Secure
Dating without sex is a clear and confident decision. It's not about fear or control. It is all about self-respect, emotional safety, and deliberate connection. At Bloom Boldly, we think that dating should be relaxing, grounded, and powerful. We can develop attraction, trust, and commitment without crossing physical limits that feel unnatural.
By Bloom Boldlyabout a month ago in Humans
Why Job Searching Feels Humiliating
My husband looked for a job for six months. He’s capable. Skilled. Reliable. He did everything you’re told to do. Updated the resume. Applied broadly. Followed up. Stayed flexible. Took rejection quietly and kept going.
By Danielle Katsourosabout a month ago in Humans
Jobs That Will (Probably) Not Exist in 2030, and the Skills to Future-Proof Yourself
People fear robots taking jobs. The truth feels less dramatic. Jobs disappear because habits stay fixed while systems change. By 2030, many roles people defend today will fade quietly. No headlines. No warnings. Just fewer openings and lower pay.
By Wilson Igbasiabout a month ago in Humans
Imran Khan was a good cricketer in the cricket match.
How Many Cricket Matches Has Imran Khan Won? Imran Khan is remembered not only as one of the greatest cricketers Pakistan has ever produced, but also as a leader who changed the spirit and confidence of Pakistan cricket forever. When people ask,
By Niaz Muhammadabout a month ago in Humans
A Successful Marriage With a Narcissist Without Losing You
A successful marriage with a narcissist is often misunderstood, oversimplified, or portrayed as impossible. Many people stay in such marriages for a variety of reasons, including commitment, ideals, shared history, children, faith, or personal choice. The actual struggle is not just staying married but also maintaining your individuality, emotional health, and dignity while navigating a complex relational dynamic.
By Bloom Boldlyabout a month ago in Humans
I Didn’t Want to Be Rich — I Wanted to Breathe
I used to say I wanted to be rich. It sounded acceptable. Responsible. Ambitious. It made adults nod approvingly and strangers respect my exhaustion. Wanting money is a socially approved dream; wanting rest is treated like a character flaw.
By LUNA EDITH2 months ago in Humans
7 Ways to Stop Those Annoying Robocalls
If you are like most people, you want those robocalls to stop. Instead of decreasing, they have increased. The Federal Communications Commission (FCC) estimates that about 163 million robocalls are made every day. YouMail is a company that tracks robocalls and blocks them. The company estimated there were 4.9 billion unwanted U.S. calls last month. Last year, there was an average of 48 billion robocalls. This year, there will be even more.
By Margaret Minnicks2 months ago in Humans
Why Some Wounds Never Fully Heal
My mother died on a Tuesday in March, three weeks after her diagnosis. Cancer moved through her body with terrifying speed, leaving no time for goodbyes, no space for preparation, no chance to say all the things I'd always assumed I'd have time to say. She was here, and then she wasn't. Everyone told me the same thing: "Time heals all wounds." They meant well. But they were wrong. Fifteen years later, I still reach for the phone to call her when something good happens. Fifteen years later, I still feel the absence like a phantom limb—a presence that's missing but somehow still aches. Fifteen years later, I'm still waiting for the day when thinking about her doesn't hurt. I've finally accepted that day isn't coming. And somehow, that acceptance has brought more peace than all the years of waiting for the pain to end. The Myth of Complete Healing We're sold a particular narrative about grief, about trauma, about loss: if you do the work, if you process it correctly, if you're strong enough, you'll heal completely. The wound will close. The pain will end. You'll be whole again. But some wounds are too deep for that kind of closure. Some losses are too profound to ever fully recover from. And pretending otherwise doesn't help—it just makes us feel like failures when we're still hurting years later. I spent the first five years after my mother's death trying to heal "correctly." I went to therapy. I joined support groups. I read books about grief. I talked about my feelings. I did everything I was supposed to do. And yet, the wound remained open. I'd have months where I felt okay, where I'd think, "Finally, I'm healing." Then something small—a song, a scent, Mother's Day—would rip everything open again, and I'd be back at square one, sobbing in parking lots and grocery stores, feeling like I'd failed at grief. "Why can't I get past this?" I asked my therapist during one particularly difficult session. "It's been five years. Shouldn't I be better by now?" She leaned forward, her eyes kind. "What if this isn't about getting past it? What if it's about learning to carry it?" The Wounds That Change Us Some experiences fundamentally alter who we are. They create a before and after in our lives so profound that we can never return to the person we were. Before my mother died, I believed the world was basically safe. I believed people I loved would be around for a long time. I believed I had control over my life in ways that made me feel secure. After she died, all those beliefs shattered. I learned that safety is an illusion. That people you need can vanish without warning. That control is a story we tell ourselves to feel less terrified of existence. These weren't lessons I could unlearn. This wasn't damage I could repair. My mother's death didn't just hurt me—it changed me at a cellular level. The wound wasn't something on me; it became part of me. I spent years trying to get back to who I was before. I'd look at old photos and barely recognize the carefree woman smiling back at me. Where had she gone? Could I ever find her again? The answer, I eventually realized, was no. And that wasn't a failure. It was just the truth.
By Ameer Moavia2 months ago in Humans
The Weight of Being "Too Much": How I Learned My Sensitivity Was Never the Problem
I was seven years old the first time someone told me I was too sensitive. I'd come home from school crying because my best friend said she didn't want to play with me anymore. My father looked up from his newspaper, irritation flickering across his face. "You're being too sensitive," he said, turning the page. "Kids say things. You need to toughen up." So I tried. I swallowed my hurt. I forced a smile. I pretended it didn't matter. That moment became a blueprint for the next three decades of my life. By the time I was thirty-seven, married with two kids and a successful career, I'd perfected the art of not feeling too much. I'd learned to laugh off insults, minimize my pain, and apologize for my emotions before anyone else could criticize them. But the cost of all that toughening up? I'd become a stranger to myself. The Education of Emotional Suppression The messages came from everywhere, each one teaching me that my natural way of being was somehow wrong. When I cried during a sad movie: "It's just a movie. Why are you so emotional?" When a friend's thoughtless comment hurt my feelings: "You're overreacting. I was just joking." When I needed time to process conflict: "You're being too dramatic. Just get over it." When I was moved to tears by beauty—a sunset, a piece of music, an act of kindness: "You cry at everything. What's wrong with you?" Each time, the same lesson: Your feelings are excessive. Your responses are inappropriate. You are too much. I learned to preface every emotional expression with an apology. "I know I'm being ridiculous, but..." "I'm probably overreacting, but..." "Sorry, I'm just too sensitive..." I became an expert at minimizing my own experience, at gaslight myself before anyone else could do it for me. The Slow Erosion of Self What happens when you spend decades being told your emotions are wrong? You start to believe it. I stopped trusting my own reactions. When something hurt me, my first thought wasn't "that was hurtful," but "I'm being too sensitive." When I felt uncomfortable in a situation, I'd override my instincts and force myself to stay, convinced my discomfort was a character flaw rather than valuable information. I became everyone's emotional support system while denying myself the same care. Friends would call me for hours when they were upset, and I'd listen with endless patience and compassion. But when I was hurting? I'd minimize it, laugh it off, handle it alone. In my marriage, I'd absorb my husband's bad moods without comment, adjust my behavior to keep the peace, and swallow my hurt when he was dismissive or short with me. "You're too sensitive" became his go-to response whenever I expressed that something bothered me. Eventually, I stopped expressing it at all. I taught my children to share their feelings, while simultaneously teaching them through my example that their mother's feelings didn't matter. I'd hide in the bathroom to cry, ashamed that I couldn't be stronger.
By Ameer Moavia2 months ago in Humans
Practical Magick: Applied metAlchemy
How wonderful it is that no one need wait one moment before starting to improve the world. -Anne Frank This simple, profound sentiment of personal responsibility and change underlies the second mantra of meta-alchemy. When energy is sufficient to facilitate it, grow and evolve as a person, as a professional, as a creator, and as a functional member of society. Take a class, go to therapy, work in your garden—evolution has myriad faces, determined only by the one you wish to see in the mirror. Just remember that you cannot take sustenance from stone; if you don't ensure sufficient energy to sustain your growth, it will fail to take root due to inhospitable conditions.
By Maia Gadwall the metAlchemist2 months ago in Humans
