Love Is not Given It’s Felt Felt!!!

99.9% of the people on the planet want to experience real love, intimate love, family love. But in order to experience that type of love, you must understand that it has nothing to do with you. Yes, I said it. Nothing at all—unless you're the one doing the loving. Of course, you can’t pick your family. You just have to cross all your fingers and toes and hope your higher power puts you in the right place, which is a 50/50 chance.

Now, when it comes to your love life, you can do all the picking. And you can pick who and whatever you like. It all boils down to the goosebumps. You know that feeling you get when you first meet that special person, how you’re head over heels like the sun’s never going to stop shining on you. That's it. That’s the feeling you want for a lifetime. That doesn’t mean you won’t go through the ups and downs. But with the goosebumps, the ups and downs are different, because in a relationship, you have each other’s best interest in mind every day.

It’s like having two souls in one. You can’t hurt one and not the other. The outside world can’t do anything but look in. And you may wonder how. How can two people get to a place like that? And it’s really easy. Even though people in this day and age think it’s all about money, beauty, and what someone has to offer them, or about how the outside world looks at them, it’s actually about how a person makes you feel on an everyday basis. Talking, communicating, understanding one another on emotional and spiritual levels is also important. Knowing the energy you’re giving your loved one is also important. And you know when you feel loved because of the goosebumps you give each other.

I personally think that goosebumps are linked to your soul. They’re like your psychic intuition that lets you know when something’s right or wrong. So, if you can learn to tap into what your goosebumps are telling you, finding the love you want and deserve should be effortless. This could take some time for a person to get used to, but as the old saying goes, “practice makes perfect.” With that being “said,” you only have one life, and I’m sure you want it to be the best one. Love yourself enough to know how you want to be loved, because when you meet that person who lights up your soul and keeps your heart warm and you can't get rid of the goosebumps, you want to make sure you can return the feeling. Just imagine how much more fulfilling life would be.

Have you ever seen the senior couple out somewhere or just sitting on the porch who’ve been married for decades and wonder how? Stop and ask them sometime. It’s an inner love and respect and a responsibility to make the person you pick as a life partner feel there's nothing on this planet more important than them. That type of love and emotion radiates and makes others pay attention—family, friends, coworkers, kids, and others all look and wonder what they are missing. But for kids, it's a lesson when they see mom and dad so happy. It teaches them how to treat others and how others should treat them.

To end this, I would like you to know the inner you is powerful. It just takes patience, time, and the courage to stop every once in a while and listen to your innermost self. The goosebumps can be life-changing. Think about it. Life is short, so live your best life. Be blessed.