relationships
Love, sex, single, committed.
The Man that Helps Me Believe in Polyamory Makes Me Think About Monogamy
I woke up an hour and a half before my alarm today with the intention of writing about the new guy. I had coffee. I had some food. I decided that I couldn’t type while eating so I went to Facebook. I played some games. I commented, liked, lurked…played more games. I finally opened this blog window as my alarm was going off. Oh, I know avoidance when I see it. Yes, yes I do. I have been avoiding you.
By Allison Rice4 years ago in Filthy
The Risky Prospect of Offering Your Love
Okay. I’m a lover. No, really. I’m not just talking about sex, dating & intimacy. I’m extremely demonstrative with my friends and…well…everyone. I’m the kind of person that says “thanks, hun, you have a great afternoon” to the cashier at the grocery store. I’m gregarious. I’m outgoing. I say “I love you” to lots of people.
By Allison Rice4 years ago in Filthy
Getting Dumped By Someone I Wasn't Even Attracted to in the First Place
Okay, kiddies – I’m going to try to get you up to date on recent events and may as well start with this one. We’ll call him the Little Pirate Bear & identify him as M41. Little Pirate Bear messaged me on OKC in a pretty bold and flirtatious fashion near the end of April. For those keeping score, I was still messing around with my young, hot booty call boys at that time and wasn’t that excited about this guy. He indicated that he’d just come out of a long-term relationship and didn’t know what he was looking for, but needed to start looking. Okay, there’s a warning bell sounding in there because I can be kind of a handful, but he said that he loved kickin’ curves and loving a woman’s body, so he brought enough flirtatious zest to the table to get my attention. Subsequent conversations seemed to indicate that we had quite a lot in common as far as our personal relationship history was concerned, and I felt like he was at the exact place that I was about 10 months ago – dipping my toe into dating for the first time in 20+ years, uncertain about what was available or what I wanted, lacking confidence, terrified but also excited to be taking those first steps in a new direction.
By Allison Rice4 years ago in Filthy
That Cougar Thing? Totally Legit!
Nearly a decade ago, I went through a divorce and started dating for the first time as an adult. When friends suggested I write about my experiences, I started a blog. I have been "revisiting" some of my former exploits lately, and decided to share, using my real name, for the first time.
By Allison Rice4 years ago in Filthy
Set the Way, Way Back Machine!
Nearly a decade ago, I went through a divorce and started dating for the first time as an adult. When friends suggested I write about my experiences, I started a blog. I have been "revisiting" some of my former exploits lately, and decided to share, using my real name, for the first time.
By Allison Rice4 years ago in Filthy
Put Out
Nearly a decade ago, I went through a divorce and started dating for the first time as an adult. When friends suggested I write about my experiences, I started a blog. I have been "revisiting" some of my former exploits lately, and decided to share, using my real name, for the first time.
By Allison Rice4 years ago in Filthy
The truth behind D/S
The thing everyone gets wrong about Dom/sub relationships is that they are all about trust. They don't hinge on pain and punishment. There may be a place for that in the bedroom but it is not the basis for every single moment. It is based on respect and love.
By Justice for All4 years ago in Filthy
My Eric
I’ve accumulated an expansive collection of theatre friends throughout my time on earth thus far. If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that theatre friends are a specific breed. They’re too dramatic for “normal” friends, and too “eccentric” for the world of Instagram. They are the source of many migraines, but the solution to life’s boredom. I keep them close because they wear the same lens as me. To us, the world is rich with possibilities. Life is a stage and we’re here to shine, belly-laugh, weep, and rage. We’re romantic, idealistic, naïve, and sometimes egotistical. We crave drama. Fire. Meaning…but we don’t always get it. We feel as if the world is against us, which only increases the vibration of our connection.
By Heather Cunningham4 years ago in Filthy
What Was ...
Being with you was so easy, there was never a fight or a cross word. You were my Hero, my rock, my friend, my lover, my galaxy. A word from you would send shivers down my spine, even in tears, there was this moment of passion. Always my first call when I was weak, always my first thought in any moment. My protector, my confidante.
By Justice for All4 years ago in Filthy
