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SubSays: Behaviour Modification and D/s Relationships
Hey again E/everyone! If you’re new to this series, SubSays, my name’s Lydia, an active submissive in my local BDSM community. I write to bring awareness to O/our lifestyle, encourage others to explore alternative means of relationships, and provide answers to kinky questions to the best of my ability. It was requested of me to produce the article mentioned in my last publication, “Ask a Submissive: Vol. 2” on the topic of behaviour modification. I’ll start by defining behavior modification, both in the BDSM world and in the vanilla world, including the definition, techniques and examples, then move into basic models of operant conditioning including positive and negative reinforcement, punishment, and extinction. Lastly I’ll dive right into how this all related to relationships and different D/s dynamics.
By Lorah Catherine8 years ago in Filthy
SubSays: How to Find a Dom
Hey you, with the submissive style and interests…yeah, you! Are you looking for a Dom? I’ve made this magical and practical guide to how to safely go about finding your specific D-type while surfing through this magical online fetish world. It can often be extremely dangerous for submissives or other s-types to go about finding a Dominant partner since many of those quote-unquote “D-types” aren’t really confident, safe, experienced, or educated about what it really means to be Dominant or to Dominate, even more so if you're a younger female in this terrifying world of pervy "Doms." Here are seven ideas to consider and read through before consenting to be owned, collared, or to play.
By Lorah Catherine8 years ago in Filthy
What BDSM Has Done for Me!
What Being a Sub Has Done for Me: So many myths about the world of BDSM are constantly being flung about, the vast majority by people who hide behind their ignorance of the subject. Often they have these ideas of what it is, but have never looked into it, never spoken to anyone in the lifestyle, or met anyone who is.
By Janie Knight8 years ago in Filthy
I've Submitted to Him
So what does that mean? As my readers know, my goal in writing is to bring awareness to the vast array of different lifestyles I and people in general are involved in. This article will specifically look at what it means to “submit” to a Dominant-type person in a Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationship in the BDSM community.
By Lorah Catherine8 years ago in Filthy
What's Your Fantasy?
Sex. What about it? It's freaking amazing! When it's done right, of course. But either way, it's a gateway to so much. It's like initial sex is the gateway drug to finding out about oral sex, BDSM etc. Anything you can imagine, it's more than likely something you can find in sex. Let's discuss some of my personal things that I want to have happen in my sex life and what I've already had a taste of in the past.
By Friday Vibes8 years ago in Filthy
Now!
I think about her everyday and what she looked like. This deliciously curvy waisted heartthrob that grew to be too tantalizing to pass. She dated guys that couldn't compete with me, her taste was inferior, but she, herself, was on par with me. Her name a mystery, but her desire for me was obvious and still is. A potent vile of love, lust, passion and no matter the numerous occasion she suggests to be mine, I refused at all costs. Until one sexually charged day, I deny myself the satisfaction of having her alone any longer. I was yearning for her attention, emotions, love, and touch.
By Creation Studios8 years ago in Filthy
Confessions of a Sex Lover
Sex. I love sex. And everything associated with it. I am a voyeuristic person by nature and would often prefer to watch others have sex. I like to watch. I love the sounds of a woman moaning and groaning while she is pleasured. I love the sounds of sex. Raw and primal. I have learned over the years not to gawk at what interests me, but to take quick glances that take in everything. So I can focus on large-breasted women, which is another preference. Cleavage sparks my imagination and my lust as I wonder what type of nipples she has or how big her areolae are. My original “type” of woman was about 5’2'', bright-skinned, with a very round butt. I have since expanded that demographic to include various body types and heights. Personality is important. I tend to be able to tell how good a woman is in bed just from a basic conversation. Aside from wife number one, I have not had bad sex.
By Tim Ellerbe II8 years ago in Filthy
My Story of Submission
“That’s just what I’m into.” My friend sat jaw-dropped across the table. “So you want him to choke you?” “Yes.” I’m 23 now and have been having sex for five years. When I first embarked on my sexual adventures, I remember having a few short-term boyfriends who would just lay on top of me and move back and forth. I just wasn’t excited. Orgasm unattainable. For the first while of my sexual experiences, I was terribly bored.
By Ariel Nicole8 years ago in Filthy
