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Explore common and little-known fetishes. Learn how to satisfy a fetish and how to interpret the fetishes of your partner.
13 Signs of a Fake Dom Every Submissive Should Know
I used to be active in the fetish community—very active. Though I still love BDSM, I no longer associate with fetish circles and people often ask me why that is the case. The fact is that my aversion to talking with fetishists can be summed up in two words: fake Doms.
By Ossiana Tepfenhart7 years ago in Filthy
My Journey Through Dominance and Kink
Sex has always been a large part of my life. A LARGE part of my life. At 14 years old I lost my virginity to, whom my small-minded 14 year old self though was, the love of my life. Of course, at 14 years old, sex was this forbidden adult act that neither of us knew a damn thing about. We were all awkward movements and quick glances at body parts that weren't meant for long term viewing.
By Charlee Love7 years ago in Filthy
Why Gay Men Lust Straight Guys
Can we take a moment and just look at the hotties in the picture? For the purposes of this article, we are going to pretend one is straight and one is gay. Either way, they are beautiful men and just yummy. Some things are unfolding for me, and it made me start thinking about the relationship between straight and gay men. Usually, the gay guy is trying to suck (or more) the straight guy's cock. Let's be honest about that. But it made me question why. Why do gay men have such an affinity for men who like women?
By Edward Anderson7 years ago in Filthy
He Watched Her... (Part 2)
She stared out of her kitchen window while washing the dishes. Life had gone back to normal; the hustle and bustle of life. The weekly PTO Meetings, soccer practices, football practices, and running kids all over the city had once again consumed her life. It seemed like was this was the only time she had to herself; when she was staring out of that kitchen window while washing the dishes. That was the time when she could reflect and reminisce. Lately, she had been reminiscing… It had been a month since she last saw him that night in the hotel. She had never seen anything so beautiful before… She stared out of the window, daydreaming about her experience with him…
By Reaux Tinkleflower7 years ago in Filthy
The Daddy Complex
"Who's your daddy?" It's a question that is used in and to indicate sexy times (especially in pop culture). There is also a group of people, a growing group, that sexualize men who are fathers or who look and act like they could be a dad. What is so sexy about that? There are a few theories, but almost none of them hit on the real reason why dads are so hot, why there is a group of gay men and straight ladies who fetishize them.
By Edward Anderson7 years ago in Filthy
The Line Between Learning and Using
Sometimes, we don't give submissives enough credit. As Dominants, we often mistake a submissives need for leadership for a lack of knowledge. Yes, these people must be lead in the right direction, but this doesn't mean these people come without a skill set and personality all their own. Most dominants in the fetish world have heard the term, "Topping from the Bottom." It's a term that is used when someone who claims to be submissive, is in fact very manipulative, controlling, and demanding. These people often see themselves as true submissives, when in reality they want to experience controlled, submissive fantasies they have constructed. Alone, there is nothing wrong with this, but when bringing it into a kink dynamic, it can often be frustrating, tiring, and harmful.
By Soulless Sugar7 years ago in Filthy
How to Be a Middle Ground Femdom
For so long, with encouragement from my partner, I tried to ramp up my kinkiness in the bedroom to better incorporate more BDSM and dominance on my part. Time and time again my own conscience would make me hold back. Am I going too far? Is he even enjoying this? Is this weird or…? I trawled through the internet trying to find tips on how to be more dominant and what I found I could not relate to. These women who wrote about their dominant experiences had their man in a chastity cage 24/7 and were often very controlling in many aspects that I couldn’t comprehend, but totally respected their commitment.
By Kate Crawford7 years ago in Filthy
My Dom from Hell
I heard a lot of horror stories in the past of S/D relationships, or I heard some juicy ones from some of my girlfriends over wine. I have always loved the BDSM life style for most of my late teen and early adult life. I won’t say I am a hardcore expert, but I have been around the block a few times while looking deeper into the kinky sex world. BDSM is a huge world. It has so many different meanings for so many people. In this day of age, there is a fetish for everything and someone out there that shares the same interests. You've just got to know where to look to find the right person.
By Camille Ballentine7 years ago in Filthy
