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How to Throw a Swingers Party
In New York and Los Angeles, there's a major community of swingers who throw parties, have sex, and actually look good doing it all. In fact, these events are often incredibly selective and are sometimes even viewed as a bragging right in certain circles. Swinging, despite rumors of it being dead, is alive and well.
By Ossiana Tepfenhart9 years ago in Filthy
Is Your Pussy Broken?
"Maybe it really smells. Maybe it's dry as hell. Broken pussy." Rapping enthusiastically over Kalis's "Im bossy" instrumental during an open mic night in LA, Issa Rae paints a picture of what her best friend referred to as "broken pussy" in an episode of HBO's Emmy nominated series "Insecure". When I saw this episode I couldn't help but laugh out loud because Issa wittingly described two common issues women face concerning their vaginal health.
By Tyomi Morgan9 years ago in Filthy
The Truth About Whiskey Dick
Whiskey dick is a colloquial and funny term for something that many men find embarrassing and scary the first time it happens to them. Technically, it refers to a kind of erectile dysfunction that results from drinking too much alcohol. Men who have never had trouble with getting an erection or staying hard may find themselves suddenly unable to perform after a night of heavy drinking. But, if you've encountered this problem after a night of partying, don't panic. Read on for the truth about whiskey dick, and be reassured that this is completely common, and definitely temporary.
By Annie Kiely9 years ago in Filthy
Is It Possible to Never Have an Orgasm?
Women who have never had orgasms often feel extremely depressed, or cheated, since society glorifies orgasms so much; and, indeed, it is a great pleasure that is being missed. Let's look at what these women say and try to suggest what they might try. Almost every woman who hasn't orgasmed would like to.
By Alicia Springer9 years ago in Filthy
How To (Gently) Introduce Rough Sex in Bed
The average person is into some kinky, rough things in bed, yet so often people are content to indulge in casual, vanilla sex. An individual may be into some rough stuff, want to be thrust into the pillow, choked, bound--a BDSM fantasy. Yet so many are afraid to speak up, and surrender to a normal, less exciting sex life.
By Anthony Gramuglia9 years ago in Filthy
The Beginner's Guide to Sexy Lingerie
Ask any single person who's ever gone into Victoria's Secret, and they'll tell you that sexy lingerie isn't easy to buy. In fact, wearing the wrong bra or panties can make a totally fit, visually stunning figure look like a sausage stuffed into a very unsexy skin.
By Mackenzie Z. Kennedy9 years ago in Filthy
How To Fix a Dead Bedroom
Most of us would never knowingly commit to a romantic relationship which had absolutely no sex going on whatsoever. In fact, it's one of the most common fears men have when they're walking down the aisle. Though no one would ever knowingly go into a relationship that would result in a dead bedroom, it still happens quite frequently.
By Skunk Uzeki9 years ago in Filthy
Attraction isn't a Choice
I’m sure at some stage we’ve all asked the question of a potential suitor - “so what do you look for in a guy/girl?” The more I think about it, the more this seems like a pointless question. The answer is usually a generic response of niceties like someone who’s fun, caring, affectionate, loyal, honest, blah, blah, blah. We’d all agree that these are traits that we’d probably want in a partner, but trying to provide a logical answer based on a list of adjectives for something as seemingly illogical as attraction is rudimentary at best.
By Madison James9 years ago in Filthy
Insanely Powerful Vibrators That Look Nothing Like Vibrators
Everyone masturbates. This is just a fact that we all have to accept. If you're like most other women out there, you probably have a vibrator to help you cross the finish line. Unfortunately, vibrators can be pretty embarrassing if they're discovered by someone.
By Mackenzie Z. Kennedy9 years ago in Filthy
