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Sometimes a good divorce is better than a bad marriage.
Divorce and Law of Emotions: What's the correlation?
So, let me read you a little excerpt from a phenomenal book by Brian Tracy. It says: “The law of emotions states that 100% of your decisions and subsequent actions are based on emotion. You are largely emotional or 90% emotional and 10% logical, as has been assumed. You are completely emotional. Everything you do is based on an emotion of some kind. Your emotions are the energizing forces behind your thoughts. The more intensely you feel something, the greater affect that thought or circumstance will have on your life.
By Divorce by Rose4 years ago in Families
Divorce and Enthusiasm: Can those 2 words be put together?
You are getting divorced. Conversation of divorce is happening because something is broken. Something is just no longer working anymore. Someone is just not feeling good about this marriage anymore. Someone is distancing themselves- whether it’s you or both of you, it doesn’t really matter. The bottom line is that something isn’t working. And so, if something is not working, divorce is your golden opportunity to REDESIGN your life as you want it to be. To HONOR yourself. To give yourself what it is you actually want in your life. So, divorce could look like a bad thing because it’s the break up of the family and whatever it is the you knew and everything that you had is no longer going to be there anymore but, if you look on the flip side and you look at all the things that you ARE going to have and all those things are going to be introduced into your life, you should be enthusiastic about that. You should be focused on all those things that you are going to be reinvigorating back into your life, that you are going to be re introducing to the person that you really want to be and the life that you really want to have. So if you’re going through a conversation with your spouse or the other parent, and the conversation is not going so great, where you’re not feeling so great about divorce, I want you to know one thing: besides the fact of being overloaded with emotions , which I know you’re going to be, I want you to take the opportunity and really analyze where you’re at right now and is this really where you want to be because you need to be “enthusiastic” about your post-divorce life in order to make the right decisions right now. If you‘re not enthusiastic about what is going to come and what you are envisioning and what do you want to bring into your life, all your decisions you’re going to make are going to be coming from a very bad place and I guarantee you that you’re likely going to regret many of your decisions. So, if you are not sure what to do, if you’re feeling overwhelmed, confused and worried and anxious, part of which is normal, please join us at Divorce by Rose, a Divorce Community APP that was specifically created to help you: a. Stay anonymous while you are chatting with like-minded parents and b. Connect with like-minded parents that are probably thinking the same thing as you and acting the same way and showing up in their lives in the same way as you
By Divorce by Rose4 years ago in Families
Divorce is Like a Puzzle | Thinking About Divorce
Why? Because I want to help you make the decision: “Should I stay married or should I get divorced” from a logical standpoint. I want you to remove the emotions from the equation at the moment and just think logically so that you can make a PROPER decision of what you should do from this point forward.
By Divorce by Rose4 years ago in Families
Mothers MUST Become Financially Independent
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY At other times they’re really understanding the truth and validity behind what I’m saying. It is extremely, extremely important for women to become financially independent of the father or the spouse. And let me explain what I mean. If you are going to budget based on moneys that he is going to give you every month, whether that’s child support or alimony, I have to tell you that you’re going to fall into problems. And the reason is because jobs come and go. Money comes and goes. Games are played on a regular basis. And we’ve all heard all the kinds of games that are being played by people who choose not to pay the bills.
By Divorce by Rose4 years ago in Families
Divorcing With Maturity Is Sexy
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY Maturity… Divorce…does it even match? does it even go together? It does and it should! To be honest with you, one of the main things that I look for when I’m dating is that I’m looking for a man who divorced with maturity, who does not hate or despise his ex-wife, one who does not try to do anything possible to make his ex-wife or the mother of his children suffer tremendously. And I know many women who think this way and many women who are looking for that mature evolved man. And I know of many men who think the same way and are looking for that mature evolved woman. So often when we’re going through divorce, we throw in all of our emotions and all of our worst fears and all of our worst concerns and we say I don’t want to lose this, I don’t want to lose that, I don’t want to do this and do that and they think of all the negative. But the one thing people forget about is…. hold on a second… once the saga is over with, once it all gets settled, then where am I going to be?
By Divorce by Rose4 years ago in Families
Alone for Christmas
I remember thinking that when my kids were all grown and had their own families, that the house would be full on Christmas. I could always imagine my husband and I sitting in the house with the grandkids running around while dinner is being finished. Then we would all eat around a hug table. Then open gifts around the tree.
By Ireland Lorelei 4 years ago in Families
HOW TO GET YOUR DIVORCE FINANCES & BUDGET IN ORDER
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY: Hi, my name is Ravit Rose and I'm the founder of the Divorce by Rose Community App. In this course, How To Get Your Finances and Budget in Order, you're going to learn how to take the emotions out of the equation when it comes to money and put all your numbers down on a piece of paper. Whether you're contemplating divorce or newly separated and you're wondering to yourself “how am i going to make it to the end of the month”, Am I going to have enough money to buy food at the end of the month”, “How am I going to pay my bills”, “Am I going to be eating out of tuna cans instead of eating my steak dinners that I'm used to”, “How do I ensure that I'm not going to end up broke and broken”?
By Divorce by Rose4 years ago in Families
I Forgive Me
I Forgive Me It was just a week after we had spent Thanksgiving dinner at my Mother’s home. We all enjoyed each other’s company and stories as we leisurely sat around the table after eating. Sam and I had been arguing a bit before arriving and suddenly changing moods so no one would be able to detect anything was wrong between us. Our three daughters sat silently in the car but somehow came to life when they felt the safety in their Grandparents welcoming arms.
By Helen LUsk4 years ago in Families
TAKE 5 HELPING KIDS THROUGH DIVORCE
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY. Hi, I’m Jondi Whitis and I am Divorce by Rose’s EFT Master Trainer. I’d like to welcome you to the introduction of my Divorce by Rose course, Take 5 Doable Guide to Help your kids through separation and divorce. This is a bite-size video series for busy, stressed-out parents. I hope that it will have helpful and practical assurances for parents, starting with “You’re not alone”. Help is available to support and straight-up talk about the kids. We want to help you and keep the kids healthy and balanced during uncertain and upsetting times, prioritizing what matters.
By Divorce by Rose4 years ago in Families
