Self-help

Mike Savage’s Favourite Spots in New Canaan
New Canaan, Connecticut, is more than just a picturesque town — it’s a vibrant community where history blends seamlessly with modern charm. For Michael Savage, a prominent figure known for his passion for collecting and cultivating culture, New Canaan is home. His favourite spots around town highlight the unique character of this place, from hidden gems to renowned landmarks.
By Mike Savage New Canaan6 months ago in Chapters
Karachi Chronicles Chapter 1
Years ago, returning from Europe, I was stopping over in Dubai airport. Exploring the cavernous terminal, I found myself needlessly gliding along a travelator, when something abruptly commanded my attention. Drifting across my field of vision, like a cloud blocking the sun in an otherwise vacant sky, was a group of guys draped in flowing white robes. Clad in black and sporting a large, messy afro, I was the shade behind the cloud. On the outside, we shared no resemblance.
By S. J. Leahy6 months ago in Chapters
Importance of confidence . Content Warning. AI-Generated.
Confidence is one of the most valuable qualities a person can have. It shapes the way we see ourselves, how others see us, and the opportunities we create in life. While some people seem naturally confident, the truth is that confidence is not something we are born with—it’s something we build, nurture, and protect. What is Confidence? Confidence is the belief in your abilities, skills, and worth. It’s not about thinking you’re perfect or better than others, but about trusting yourself enough to take action, face challenges, and handle setbacks. A confident person accepts both strengths and weaknesses and moves forward without being paralyzed by fear. Confidence also comes in two forms: inner confidence and outer confidence. Inner confidence is the calm assurance that you can handle life’s situations, even if you don’t know everything right now. Outer confidence is what you project—your body language, tone of voice, and actions that show self-assurance to others. Both forms feed into each other, creating a powerful cycle of growth. Why Confidence Matters Confidence can transform your personal and professional life. When you believe in yourself: You take more opportunities. Confident people say yes to challenges because they trust they can figure things out. You inspire others. People are naturally drawn to those who project certainty and positivity. You recover faster from failure. Instead of letting mistakes define them, confident individuals see them as lessons. You communicate better. Confidence allows you to speak clearly, stand your ground, and express your ideas effectively. Without confidence, even the most talented person can remain unnoticed because they don’t step forward or voice their ideas. Common Myths About Confidence Many people hold beliefs that actually hold them back from becoming confident: 1. “Confidence means being loud and outgoing.” In reality, confidence can be quiet and calm. You don’t need to be the center of attention to be self-assured. 2. “Confident people never doubt themselves.” Everyone has doubts. Confidence is about moving forward despite those doubts. 3. “You have to be perfect to be confident.” Perfection is an illusion. True confidence comes from accepting your flaws and still valuing yourself. How to Build Confidence Confidence is like a muscle—the more you work on it, the stronger it becomes. Here are some practical steps: 1. Know Your Strengths and Weaknesses Write down what you are good at and where you need improvement. Confidence grows when you are realistic about yourself and still choose to act. 2. Set and Achieve Small Goals Start with achievable tasks. Each success, no matter how small, reinforces your belief in yourself. 3. Improve Your Skills Lack of confidence often comes from feeling unprepared. The more skilled you are, the more confident you’ll feel. 4. Practice Positive Self-Talk Replace negative thoughts like “I can’t do this” with “I will try and learn from the result.” 5. Work on Your Body Language Stand tall, make eye contact, and speak clearly. Your posture and tone can influence how others see you—and how you see yourself. 6. Surround Yourself with Positive People Spend time with those who encourage and believe in you. Negative people can drain your confidence. Overcoming Confidence Killers Fear of failure, comparison with others, and overthinking are the biggest enemies of confidence. Remember: Failure is a step toward growth. Every successful person has failed multiple times. Your journey is unique. Comparing yourself to others ignores your personal path and progress. Action reduces fear. The longer you wait, the more fear grows. Take small steps immediately. The Lifelong Journey of Confidence Confidence is not a one-time achievement; it’s an ongoing process. Life will present challenges that may shake your self-belief, but each time you rebuild it, you become stronger. Just like a tree becomes more rooted after enduring storms, your confidence deepens with every obstacle you overcome. When you choose to believe in yourself, you open the door to possibilities you never thought were within reach. Confidence is not about having all the answers—it’s about trusting that you can find them when needed. So, take that step, speak up, and pursue your goals. The more you practice, the more your confidence will grow—and with it, your ability to create a life filled with purpose and success.
By Shoaib 6 months ago in Chapters
Steps of Liberation : Paths to Wholesome Freedom - Part 5
She was surviving, not living - until healing showed up in red lipstick, quiet prayers, and belly laughs. This is a story of becoming whole, one small act at a time.
By Yvey Essen6 months ago in Chapters
Steps of Liberation: Path to Wholesome Freedom - Part 4
A raw, faith-filled reflection on how worship, scripture, and intimate trust in God carried me through divorce, grief, and cultural silence. Discover what it means to find divine strength in the fire.
By Yvey Essen6 months ago in Chapters
Steps of Liberation: Paths to Wholesome Freedom - Part 3
There is a weight heavier than grief .. The weight of shame you were never meant to carry. After the dust of my divorce had settled and I’d begun to find my footing, I noticed something lurking beneath my progress. It wasn’t sadness. It wasn’t fear.
By Yvey Essen6 months ago in Chapters
Steps of Liberation: Paths to Wholesome Freedom
The first thing I noticed was the silence. Not the peaceful kind that wraps around you like a soft blanket - but the kind that echoes. The kind that reminds you of absence. The kind that sits across from you at the dinner table and dares you to say something. Anything.
By Yvey Essen6 months ago in Chapters
“The Room with No Name”
She walked into the room like a question begging to be answered. Barefoot, half-robed, skin tasting of lavender and doubt. Her name was Elizabeth — soft lips, storm eyes, and a tension in her step that betrayed everything she tried to hide.
By Randolphe Tanoguem6 months ago in Chapters
Stop Guessing: Use Calculators Smarter
We live in a world where every decision, big or small, can cost you time, money, or your health. Yet many people still rely on rough guesses when it comes to calculating calories, estimating loan payments, figuring out insurance premiums, or tracking personal health metrics. The problem? Guessing is fast but often wrong.
By Martin U7 months ago in Chapters
The Leftover Light
The morning after the funeral, I made tea for two. One cup went untouched, the steam rising alone. I don’t know why I did it. Muscle memory, maybe. Or some soft part of my brain that refused to update itself to reality. I set her mug — chipped blue rim and all — down on the table and sat across from it like I was waiting for her to walk in and scold me for oversteeping.
By Moments & Memoirs7 months ago in Chapters
"They Laughed at Me Until I Did This One Thing"
The Beginning: Small Dreams in a Big World Growing up in a small town, surrounded by people who believed more in limits than in possibilities, I learned early on that dreaming too big was a dangerous thing. Dangerous not because it would kill you—but because people would kill your belief in it.
By M.SUDAIS 7 months ago in Chapters
The Echoes of Unbending will
The air in the mountain town of Naro Moru, at the foot of Mount Kenya, always carried the scent of pine and damp earth, a promise of the wild untamed beauty above. But for Elias, it carried the intoxicating aroma of his own certainty. He had climbed smaller peaks, navigated treacherous forests, and faced down swirling blizzards. Each triumph had chiseled away a silver of doubt, replacing it with an unshakeable conviction in his own abilities. He was, in his own mind, a titan of the high places, and mount Kenya, with its twin peaks reaching for the heavens, was merely the next challenge awaiting his conquest.
By Tallgirl7 months ago in Chapters