What Do Women Remember About Men?

Sex differs between males and females. Men do it for pleasure; most women do it for love.

Yes, guys, many of these females whose hearts you broke, for whatever reasons, give in to you out of love. The most beautiful part of everything they did for you and gave to you was given in the name of love.

As a female, I hear many complaints from other females about what men did to them. Everywhere I go, women express themselves by talking about their lives and relationships. Many don’t have to know you. I hear them at the Clinic when I go to see the doctor and have to sit and wait for hours to be seen. More women than men are at the clinic. Most prioritize their health so they can be there for their men when needed.

I volunteered as a teacher’s aide, and on consultation day, many mothers talked about the good and the bad their children’s fathers are doing and how it impacts their children’s lives.

These women don’t hide the pain or pleasure these men add to their lives. Amazingly, many of them are honest about it.

They write about their relationship in the newspaper’s relationship section. There is also a radio program where both males and females call in to talk about their relationships. It’s a pleasure or pain for females and sex for males.

Anywhere you see a group of women talking, the men in their lives are usually the main topic. Women talk about men every day, to every open ear that will listen. Women can go into detail and give you a biography, their past habits, likes, and dislikes, and the ways and means of these men, simply by being in a relationship with them or living with them.

If you are married and managed to make your relationship last, everyone wants your secret. Everyone comes to you for relationship advice. They believe your ways, method, or system will work for them, too.

As someone who is in a long relationship, I don’t have a secret. I just give the good I want. I don’t get it back, I stand my ground.

Pain and pleasure are what they talk about.

Women are each other’s therapists, directly or indirectly.

Many children also talked about their fathers. Two things are always said about him: that he is good and that he is bad. Some talked about what their mother said about him.

Lol, my mother said a lot of negative things about my father. Some of my siblings believed her when she said he didn’t care about us and resented him. I didn’t. I knew my father, and I was aware of her cruelty and thoughtlessness towards him, and witnessed many of her physical, verbal, emotional, and psychological abuses.

He never said one bad word against her.

James is short-tempered, but otherwise, he is good. Paul is a cheapskate, but he has a good heart. Andy never remembers my birthday, anniversary, or important dates, but I can rely on him every time. Bryan watches every dollar, but girl, he does what a man, father, and boyfriend should do. Carlos is immature, but he knows how to make me happy. Delano eats a lot and refuses to exercise, but I am short of nothing. Frank is too jealous, but he is kind to me, and our children adore him. Noel is lazy, but when it comes to his kids, he gets the Father of the Year trophy.

Hank doesn’t think and is too controlling, but he takes good care of our family. Ian isn’t very good in bed and can’t satisfy me, but does everything else right for me. Kenneth loves me for who I am, even though I can’t cook. I am not the best mother, but Michael ensures he is the best father. He is late for everything, but he is really good to my kids. He is a better father than their own father. Leslie is miserable like an old man, but what he does makes me laugh. James is a good provider; he isn’t the nicest person, but he was better than my father.

Women forgive them for their flaws. Even cheating. The opposite for the men. In my culture, women aren’t forgiven for cheating.

Every female has something good and bad to say about men. Women remember things men did that they aren’t aware of doing. They recall promises and things said to them that men forget.

Males and females are so damn different in what they recall in relationships.

Thank you for reading this piece. I hope you enjoyed it.