Don't live with yourself, because everything will pass

How you treat time, how time will give back to you.

Some people live in the present, but the mind is placed in the "past", bitterly entangled in what has been decided, but is a waste of their time.

Many times, it's not the hurdles on the road of life that you can't get over, but the lack of courage to face the reality of yourself.

A single-minded escape from reality, waiting for only a more cruel reality, rather than brave, as long as the past, everything will pass.

1. Accept your own "imperfection"

No one is a saint, no one is without fault.

No one is perfect, there will be more or less inadequate, Knowing how to pursue a better self is a good thing, but being over-imposed is difficult for them.

For some things the more you want to do better, the easier it is to make mistakes.

It's better to set your mind right and understand that some things like "the moon has its shades, sunshine, and roundness" will be full before it's complete, and over-imposing yourself will lead to an unfortunate life.

If the world existed perfect, how boring life would be, far less tasty than "imperfect"?

To put it another way, it is because of the existence of "imperfection" that there is motivation to work hard and room for progress so that you can work hard on your own to achieve a better you.

I watched a funny video, in which the main man was born perfect, just a test is the first, just buy a lottery ticket will win the first prize, just learn a skill can become an expert ......

There is nothing he can't do, only what he doesn't want to do.

Perhaps because they are too perfect, so he feels that he can not live, and would rather lie down and die, rather than do something more.

Perfection is not necessarily a good thing.

Imperfection is not necessarily a bad thing.

Know how to accept their own "imperfection", to persevere through efforts to forge a better self.

2. Accept the "gain and loss" of life

Life is an overlap of numerous "gains and losses".

It is a cycle of cause and effect.

However, few people can see through the "gain and loss", always habitually focusing on the lost, but ignoring the current possessions, thinking that you can get back, but it is just in vain.

The loss has been lost, continuing to toss and turn will not help, but easy to let yourself lose what you have now, rather than beginning to cherish what you have, and grasp the moment.

As if there is a plate of fruit, which is mixed with one or two not eaten today, tomorrow will be rotten fruit, most people will give priority to the soon-to-be rotten fruit to eat.

However, if you eat the fruit that will be rotten tomorrow today, and the fruit that will be rotten the day after tomorrow, you end up eating the soon-to-be rotten fruit every day.

Rather than redeeming the loss, you are increasing it.

The same is true in life. If you look too much at what you have lost and spend your time in the "past", you will not see the road in front of you, which will hinder your life.

If you can't face the gains and losses with the right attitude, it is very difficult to go further in life, and you will stop here if you are not careful.

3. Accept the mediocre self after trying hard

Heard this sentence, "Some things are not to see hope to persist, but persist to see hope."

Perhaps after the effort, you may not necessarily get the desired results, but not making an effort is not even "results".

Instead of sitting on the sidelines, take the initiative and try to improve yourself, make yourself better, and have more options.

Although having the right to choose does not mean living a human life, it means that life is slowly becoming better, not yet, does not mean later.

No one is born extraordinary, but some people pretend to be extraordinary, strength and ambition do not match, will only engage in crooked ways, and in the end, even the qualification to be an ordinary person.

Ordinary, seemingly simple, but most people do their best to get, that behind the effort is not less than others.

You should know that the gap between people, sometimes does not just rely on efforts to close the gap and try their best not necessarily get the desired results.

Living an ordinary life is rare and valuable.

You envy others, and some people envy you.

The happiness of the ordinary is extraordinary within reach.

Learn to accept that you are still ordinary after making an effort, to have your happiness.