Why I Won't Advice Woman Whose Husband is Cheating on Her - Nancy Isime

Nigerian actress and media personality Nancy Isime is a big name in the industry, and somebody a lot of people look up to. When she sat down with Media Room Hub for an interview, Nancy was asked about two important topics and well, the answer the interviewer received was not the answer anyone expected. Here were the questions and here's what Nancy said.

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"Would you advise your married friend to stay married if her husband is a cheat?"

I don't advice people, I tell people to do what is best for them. Till I'm in those shoes, I don't know what to do. For now, I'm not so I can't say. But I really don't advice people, people do what's best for them. Even if you advice, they still do what's best for them. So I really don't. Unless you come to me for advice, if I feel like it and if I have the right advice for you. But if not, as long as I didn't advice you to get married or to be in that home, or to choose the man, I don't think it's my place to tell you what to do when you're there. You know yourself best. You know your marriage best. You know what's best for your life. So you do it.

"What's your take on some women saying they are enough by themselves and don't need men to complete them?"

Let people be. I think we all as human beings need to get to a place where we just let people do what's best for them. If it's not affecting you, if it's not taking food out for your mouth, it's not hurting you, then it's not a problem. There's how many billions of people and majority of us don't even have our lives figured out. But we are so concerned with what somebody else has decided to do that is making them happy, that is making them sleep at night. So it still boils down to if somebody says this is best for them, please let them do it. And you do what's best for you. You decide. It's actually for you to learn. So you can say "oh that's not for me," you don't have to judge them for it and try to change their mind. You just say okay, cool. I'll do what's best, that's your own cup of tea, I'll do my own cup of tea. It shouldn't be an issue. A woman, a man, everybody should be complete as themselves. It's not even a feminist thing or a woman thing. Every human being I feel like should be able to complete themselves before they're able to be there for someone else. Cuz if you're waiting for someone else to complete you, it may never happen. And we have so many people who are elderly and have lived their lives and are still incomplete. Even after marriage and so many children, if you ask them, they're still so unhappy and they still feel like a part of themselves still needs to be found. We can have someone to complement our lives and beautify and be two complete, whole human beings living life and bringing whole complete children into the world, and not just be incomplete people everywhere disturbing other people because you feel like it is their job to complete you.

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