Be brave and say "No"

In life, there will inevitably be some tangled places, there will always be some things you don't like but have to do, at this time, we need to have the courage to say"No"!

What we need to understand is that this society does not need the so-called "good old man", do not blindly have no principle to accommodate others, do not need the so-called "good" without integrity. What we need is to treat the problem of principle, have their own views and ideas, do not randomly agree to a thing you may not be able to complete, to treat some things, to learn to say No!

Of course, sometimes it is unavoidable to avoid the common people, at this time, we need to learn the art of saying no. If only blindly compromise, blindly give up the principle, then what is the use of laws, rules? Sometimes, by saying Yes, the ultimate principle is lost.

How much corruption does not begin with the first abandonment of principle? It is believed that everyone is clean at the beginning, is a pure individual, most officials at the beginning of the goal is to use the knowledge they have learned, their ability and knowledge to achieve their own ambition, to be a good public servant for the people and the Party, want to do a great career. But how can there be a corrupt official? Can we imagine that they are the first time to compromise the so-called human favors, and then stained with the poison of greed for interests, step by step unable to extricate themselves, and finally completely abandoned the former ambition, and the abyss of corruption in the deep and do not want to come out?

It is enough to see that the greater the ability, the greater the responsibility, and the greater the need to learn to say No. However, don't think that we ordinary people don't need to pay attention to these, we also need to learn to refuse in daily life.

Just think, if you have been blindly accommodate others, others need to do everything, so good to others, good to yourself? It may be that your original purpose is to think of others, but in the long run you will end up with a busy life and few good reviews. Moreover, ALSO LET you ORIGINALLY want to help the person to develop a dependency psychology, so, is not harm him rather than help him!

What's more, the principle of the problem can not be abandoned, help others to cheat, plagiarism and other things are definitely not to help him is to harm him! Helping them cheat will only make them less interested in the knowledge they should know, and everyone will be happy at that time. In the distant future, when they need the knowledge, the people you so-called help will definitely regret and blame you for your unprincipled help. I believe that no one needs such an unprincipled friend. A true friend is to stand in each other's point of view for each other to consider clearly, rather than blindly indulge.

Of course, what is said here is definitely not "everyone sweeps the snow in front of the door, don't manage the frost on the tile of others." The SELFISH THOUGHT, THE NORMAL help between friends is indispensable, IN the society, mutual help is necessary, not also have "distant relatives as close neighbors" of the saying? However, help needs to have its own principles, help is to be within the criterion of legal ethics. What the so-called friendship, a friend to kill a knife to help him may be a joke but absolutely not to carry out.

You should know that your sometimes indecisive and cowardly euphemism will only make the person who has a bad idea push his luck. Compromise will only lead to endless trouble. There has been no principle of YES will only let the damage to others and yourself! So say "No"! Saying no is sometimes an art.